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Stay connected with
friends.

Make time for the friends you want to stay close to.

1Goal
3Core habits
2Milestones
How to start

Make the first
step clear.

Choose a friend to contact this week and a weekly follow-up day. Arrange a call or meetup within your first four weeks.

What It Includes

Your scheduled
commitments.

Start with three observable actions. Choose any personal targets and dates before starting, then adjust the routine to fit your life.

Commitment 1

  • Send a personal check-in1 time per week

Reach out to one friend each week.

Commitment 2

  • Make time together1 time per month

Have one call or meetup every four weeks. The import uses a monthly target of one; count milestone weeks from your own start date.

Commitment 3

  • Follow up1 time per week

Once a week, follow up on something a friend previously shared or an invitation you discussed.

Optional additions

Choose either, both, or neither. These start unselected during import.

  • Invite a friend to an activity: Invite one friend to a specific activity each month. 1 time per month
  • Check upcoming birthdays: Each Sunday, check birthdays for the coming week and set reminders to send greetings on the actual dates. Sunday

Record completed commitments in your D/R check-in.

Goal + Milestones

Know what
complete means.

Count weeks from your own start date. Review your logs before marking a milestone complete, and adjust the targets if you change your schedule. Optional additions do not count toward these milestones.

Stay connected with friends

Make time for the friends you want to stay close to.

Complete your first four weeks

Send four check-ins, complete four follow-ups, and have one call or meetup.

Complete twelve weeks

Send twelve check-ins, complete twelve follow-ups, and have three calls or meetups.

Make the plan real.

Copy it into D/R, review the setup, and choose what gets added.

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Practical questions

Make it work
for you.

Can I change the schedule?

Yes. Choose your weekly outreach day and how often you want to arrange a call or meetup. Adjust the commitments and milestones during import review.

What happens if I miss a day?

Reach out at your next opportunity and count the actions you actually complete. Continue toward the four- or twelve-week targets without marking an unsent message complete. Adjust your targets if your schedule changes.

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